Some men are not
for you. They don't want to love you properly at all, but at the same time they
don't want to let you go. The more you give them, the less they appreciate you,
and the minute you get fed up and decide to leave, they are ready to love you and
treat you well.
So you decide to
give them a chance in the hope that they have changed, only to realize that
they have only changed for a very short period of time. You finally find the
strength to leave and here he is again, declaring his love for you.
What many people
don't understand is that when a man shows anger and persistence to get you back
after you have tried to leave, it is not proof of love at all. A man who tries
to flatter you or makes weak attempts to be “better” for a few weeks is not proof
that he loves you, but proof that he knows you well enough to know how to
manipulate you into having you back.
Let’s put it
this way: Take away a child’s toy, and the child starts crying. The same goes
for a relationship. Take away a comfortable relationship, and the man starts
crying. The crying means he’s waiting for you to give him what he wants.
Stop listening
to what your man keeps promising you and start looking at what his actions are
telling you. Many women don’t know what it’s like to be truly loved by a man.
You know lust, you know joy, you know passion, and you know the fear of
abandonment. Stop chasing your idea of what love should be and acknowledge
what love really is.
Love is when he
does the right thing from the start because he doesn’t want to lose you,
because he knows how special you really are.
Love is not
telling your big man that he has to change so he can keep you, love is a grown
man changing himself because he can't imagine life without you.
So take my advice and choose to be loved properly and always, no matter what. Remember how much you are worth.
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