The Narcissist

     What are the things that a narcissist will do when he realizes that you will not give in to him?

     The narcissist is a true manipulator. Sometimes he even unconsciously hurts others, because this is part of his nature. He will always want things to happen his way, he will strive to subordinate you to his will in every way, he will love to be a victim, he will do everything possible to get under your skin and get what he wants.

     Generally, this type of person is not suitable for a partner, for a long-term relationship, he can rarely make a quality friend and companion in life.

      However, he has one quality that we should know - he manipulates others imperceptibly, they almost do not understand who they are dealing with.

      Here is what a narcissist will do when he realizes that you will not give in to him:

 

➤ He will change the facts

     This is a favorite strategy of the narcissistic manipulator. He distorts the facts, makes you believe in completely unreal events. He will do everything possible to make you doubt your own judgment and ultimately tell yourself that everything is your fault. You are a victim of psychological manipulation, in its worst form. 

     If you recognize such behavior, do not let yourself fall into the trap, but run far away.

 

➤ He will play the role of the victim

     Of course, he has done so much for you. He loves you, and you do not appreciate him. He cares for you and everything he does is to help you because he wants you to be happy. Empty talk! You will not believe this, right? A person who loves you will not hurt you and then apologize. He will not manipulate you and play with you, and then try to distort the facts. He will not mentally torture you and make you cry, and then make himself a victim.

     Think about it, try to see the situation from the other side. If this were happening to your girlfriend, you would warn her. Why is it so hard for you to realize this?

 

➤ He will try to intimidate you

    Another sneaky but predictable manipulation technique. Once he realizes that his weapons are weakening and that he no longer has power over you, the narcissist will try everything he can to keep you because he really doesn’t want you to break up. He feeds on your suffering, on your tears. By crushing your self-esteem, the narcissist raises his own. Intimidation can take on different faces – from subtle psychological attacks for the more timid to threats of physical self-harm – for the more courageous.

    Remember that you deserve respect, not threats. Don’t let yourself be crushed. It’s not your fault!

 

➤ Will create difficulties and obstacles for you

    When he realizes that none of his manipulative techniques are working, it is very likely that the narcissist will create obstacles for you - stop talking to you, for example. He refuses to cooperate in any way to clear the situation - whether through reconciliation or through separation. Separation also requires an interlocutor with whom you can negotiate the process. This is also a way for the narcissist to exercise control over you - ignoring your calls and messages, refusing to cooperate completely.

     Remember that the problem is not yours! Whatever happens, it is not your fault!

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