Have you had online love disappointments

     Like most modern people, if you are not in a relationship, you have probably tried to find a soulmate online. Sites and applications are constantly popping up that supposedly make your plans in this direction easier, but in practice the opposite happens.

     Meeting the right person on the Internet is like looking for a needle in a haystack. But before you give up after yet another disappointment, maybe you should think about whether you are not mistaken somewhere. Make at least one more attempt, taking into account the following before drawing the line. Maybe this time you will succeed!

 

The art of communicating online

 

     The first rule when meeting someone online is to try to respond to their messages as quickly as possible. If you delay for hours after each of their remarks, the dialogue will be quite difficult and inconsistent, and you will not be able to get to know each other, and one of the parties will probably quickly lose interest. Still, be patient. If he is slow with any of the answers, don't press him with a series of questions, which will only make him nervous and you will come across as impatient and annoying.

 

The right time to exchange phone numbers
 

     Many people take the other party's haste to get their number as desperation. Before you talk on the phone, it's better to get to know each other a little better. When you feel comfortable chatting, then give each other your numbers. Exchanging phone numbers is not tied to a specific period, but rather to the level of calm and ease in communication. With some people, an intense chat can happen after a day, with others after a week, with others it doesn't happen at all.

 

Don't turn into a detective

 

     You have every right to be curious about the person on the other side, but take it slow, at least at first and especially with personal questions. After all, you are not close enough to expect him to immediately reveal his deepest secrets or dirty shirts. And before you do a thorough investigation of social networks, give him a chance to introduce himself and say what he has.

 

Restructure your profile

 

     Maybe you are not meeting the right one because your profile is sending the wrong messages. If your photos are with pouting lips from all the toilets of restaurants in the city, there is no way you will come across an intelligent and serious gentleman.

     The brief information in the profile should also be precisely selected. After all, it is part of your business card. If you are aggressive, sleazy, belligerent or totally crazy in these few sentences, you can repel men who would actually be interested in you.

 

Stalking

 

     Another fatal mistake is constantly stalking whether he is online, when he was last active, how many new friends/followers he has. You are not his supervisor. And if you're not in a relationship, you can't afford to hold him accountable for anything. The obsessed stalker woman is the most frightening image in a man's head.

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