I understood one thing with positivity during my life: that
everywhere can be done without me.
Sometimes people claim that you are important to them, that
they love you, and that they are grateful to have met you. But no matter how
quickly you find out that you like each other, be sure that they will forget
you just as quickly. Sometimes we humans get it wrong.
In fact, at some stage we always drift apart from everyone,
sometimes we get closer, sometimes not, but absolutely everyone can do without
you. Don't get so carried away by the beautiful words spoken in a moment of
euphoria. The euphoria passes quickly and then it becomes clear who really
cares about you. And believe me, these people are really few. Very little.
Today, people find it difficult to make new friends. They
have become closed. They give the appearance that they have let you into their
heart, but only in words. They don't even raise their barriers for you.
You're not the problem. Get him out of your mind. You just
put more heart into these relationships. Yes, I know it's wrong and mostly sad
for you, but this teaches you not to expect so much from people outside of
yourself, because they don't value you. If you were valued, you would feel
accepted permanently, not just for as long as you were comfortable at the time.
These brief acquaintances teach you not to put too much emotion into temporary people. At some point you just come to the knowledge, that whoever really cares about you will feel it, see it, look for you without you having to remind yourself. He'll want you to clarify the relationship if something is wrong. He will know how to thank and apologize sincerely when he has done something wrong.
These are the true friendships. Others can do without you. True friends think of you often. They just
pick up the phone and ask how you are.
And real friends can do without you, but they are better
with you.
When someone wants to get out of your life - let them go!
Don't try to hate him - you can't because you loved him! Never regret all the
good memories with this person - remember them with a smile, not with tears in
your eyes and be glad you have them! Rejoice that you met this person, that you
loved him and do not regret that he is no longer part of your life... Somewhere
there is another person who will give you even more unforgettable moments than
these - they are ahead of you, and the past - leave them in the past! If you
want to have a good future, let the past go with a smile.
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