The things you should never forgive a man for

 

    We are all human and prone to making mistakes that can hurt someone's feelings. But remember, this does not give a man the right to make a fool of you without consequences. Don't accept his abusive behavior. The more you put up with it, the more he will do it.

When he doesn't respond to your text

     It's normal to expect the man you're texting or dating to respond to your message. Everyone can find 20 seconds of their time to answer at least briefly. If he continues to ignore your messages or blame everything on his busy schedule, send him away. 

When I cancel plans

     Of course, everything happens in our lives. All of us have canceled plans at least once. But if a man keeps canceling or rescheduling your dates, he's either too unfocused and irresponsible, or he doesn't take you seriously.

When he texts you at 2 a.m. "See you?"

     This is just getting boring. A picture from National Geographic instantly floats before your eyes: he is some kind of hairy, agitated insect performing a ritual mating dance around you, apparently indifferent and sleepy. All you want is to sleep and all he wants is sex. Seriously, where was he when you were flirting with him last night?

When he just wants to have a good time with you

     You are awesome: smart, funny, creative, beautiful, interesting. So why does he appreciate your body only in bed? Don't let him use you like this. You can give more, but he doesn't appreciate it at all. 

When he is irresponsible and frivolous

     You tend to make hundreds of excuses for guys like him. He is going through a tough time right now. He has a hard job. He has problems in his family. He doesn't like texting. He hasn't moved on from his bad relationship from 3 years ago and isn't ready for anything serious.

 Stop it. Time to draw the line. If he always has an excuse for his bad behavior but doesn't change anything, leave him.

When he disrespects your family and friends

     You can tell him how something is bothering you or what your mother said that made you angry. But it is completely unacceptable for him to talk about your family or your friends.

Please rate my work and vote for my blog on: 

Follow ZigZag Library