Check if your big Dream is not an illusion

    Do you have a Big Dream? Or at least Big Dream? Oh, that's wonderful. The only bad thing is that this dream does not come true for so long. Sometimes a person gets sad and says to himself: "Well, if my dream comes true, I would be the happiest in the world!" I try so hard, but my dream doesn't come true!".

    Some people go to great lengths to fulfill their cherished desire. Others tell themselves that nothing in this life comes true and give up. Both get upset. Mostly in vain.

     You see, the problem is that the dream is perhaps false, that it is not a dream, but a stereotype that prevents you from truly realizing yourself and being happy. But this can only be understood after trying.

    A businessman dreamed of a yacht with which to make a trip around the world. He lived with this dream, made every effort, but still could not buy a yacht. He even saw in his dream how he abandoned the business that resisted him and set off on a distant journey in the white boat on the blue waves.

    The businessman felt unhappy. He was uninterested in trading pipes, but he gritted his teeth and continued to work. One day the coach suggested something very interesting to him - to rent a yacht and sail for two weeks at sea. To realize his dream in a "lite" version to motivate himself even more.

    So the man chartered the yacht of his dreams and set sail. After a week he got terribly bored. It turned out that on the yacht you can't get your feet wet, the place is small, the sun is beating down on the deck, everything is swaying, you see the same faces... just bursting with boredom. Actually, the yacht wasn't that great. And the sea - so monotonous and boring. Not to mention you don't have a job, you don't know what to do. You can only fish, watch the sunset and admire. Well, and pretend to be super happy.

    It turned out that yachting and sailing were not his thing. And he went ashore with relief and went to work. In fact, his dream was to create a powerful corporation and lead it. To gain authority and political influence, to defeat competitors, to conquer the market. And why had he held on to this yacht for so long, when he didn't need it at all. Better to invest the funds in the business!

    One girl wanted to become a psychologist to make people happy. This was her big dream. With great difficulty, she received a second education and started working. But after a month she fell into a terrible depression; people poured out their problems to her, expected a miracle, complained, told dark things. And nothing in their minds changed, though she spoke to them correctly as they had taught her.

    The work turned out to be hard and exhausting, nothing like the dream. And the girl's strength was insufficient, talent was completely lacking.

    The dream almost killed her. She had a good heart. But the problem is that her dream was different. She went back to the bank, continued working in securities, saved good money and started a cat shelter. She loved animals and wanted to work with them, save kittens. But she was afraid to admit to herself that this was her dream. Still, being a psychologist is a nice, big dream. And the cat shelter is kind of stupid, isn't it?

    That's right. You have to try first. Hey, the one in the display case, in the crystal bowl, chocolate in color, covered with whipped cream, with cherries... oh, it must be very tasty! How I wish I could try it! It looks as tempting as in the picture! And the child gives all his savings for the magical cake from the window.

    And suddenly... What a mess! But it's not tasty at all... no, I don't like it! I saved up my pocket money for half a year to buy it. And I felt miserable because I can't have it. And now I have to eat it. Or throw it away. Besides, I have to admit that I was wrong, that I passed…

    First you have to taste your dream – tiny, just one piece. Dreaming of opening a coffee shop? First, work in a cafe for two or three months. Sometimes even a week is enough if your dream is fraudulent. Want a big house outside the city? Rent such a house and live there for at least three months. It may turn out that you are uncomfortable and uncomfortable there, who knows. It is possible that you secretly dream of something completely different, but the stereotype imposed on you by your parents or society prevents you from knowing exactly what you need to be happy.

    The Great Dream may turn out to be an illusion, a lie. And you torture yourself and complain that it didn't come true. Well, thank God it didn't come true - that's how it turns out sometimes.

    Only when we try and understand that the Dream was false can we realize our true Dream. What makes us truly happy.

    Otherwise, we may waste our lives chasing a ghost or regretting the unfulfilled. Not realizing that happiness was waiting for us around the corner while we sadly sighed whether by a yacht, a house in the suburbs or by someone who is not ours. A false dream prevents us from seeing and understanding our purpose. And the real Dream.

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