Truths that make us think. Psychologist's advice

➤If your best sex only happens after a scandal, it won't last long. Very soon you will be left with only the scandals.

➤ Nobody needs someone who doesn't need himself. He who accepts himself as he is, lives to the fullest, regardless of all kinds of life's problems.

➤ If you don't feel comfortable with the man on the first, second, and third dates, don't schedule a fourth. During the first meeting, the man presents himself in his best light, and if even then you do not enjoy communicating with him, then nothing good will come out of this relationship.

➤Young, successful and beautiful women who always find it difficult to find a partner because they have raised the bar too high actually have a problem with their ability to create relationships or are afraid of them at all.

➤ People measure love by the level of their suffering. And true, healthy love is simply the one that makes you happy.

➤ Never get involved with married men. Remember, the fish is in the fishmonger, the meat is in the butcher's. Don't waste your time because a married man doesn't need a wife, he already has one at home.

➤Loneliness is not a lack of love around you, loneliness is a lack of interest and love for yourself.

➤ If a person replaces his entire world with another person, it means that he simply does not have a world of his own.

➤ Any woman, I emphasize, any woman who stays at home for years to take care of the household and children, is degraded. This is inevitable. There will inevitably come a time when the man will get bored with her, will start to consider her stupid, and from there there is only one step to the divorce itself. Notice, the man didn't insist on this at first, it was just that his wife happily made the decision to stay home in slippers.

➤ If there is something that bothers you and harasses you in your relationship with a certain person, break up with him. Don't be afraid to be alone. There is no person in this world for whom it is worth destroying and losing ourselves, neglecting our wants and needs.

➤ Mentally healthy people are guided by their feelings and always choose themselves. Neither love nor beauty requires sacrifice. But if they require one, then it's just not your story. There is no goal worth suffering for.

➤A normal person does not maintain a relationship in which he is not respected. In fact, the normal person doesn't even start such relationships.

➤Everything is so simple: Next to you is he - as he is. Next to him is you, as you are. And you two are either good together or you are not and you need to break up. It's a good idea to do this before you have a mortgage and have three children.

➤The only time we are dependent and can be considered hostages is our childhood, when we are quite literally dependent on our parents. In all other cases, we have a choice.

➤Do you meet people who upset you and make you cry? Aren't you masochists?

➤No concessions and compromises should be made - they are the most direct way to the oncologist's or cardiologist's office. The secret of a happy family life is not in compromises, but in a stable psyche. When a person has a balanced character and a stable mind, he can live with one partner for a lifetime. And accordingly - to love only this one person. If your psyche is unstable, you can fall out of love with your beloved in 10 minutes, or something in your partner will still annoy you. This inevitably leads to separation - sooner or later.

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