Educated and sensitive people apologize. Often. They even
overdo it sometimes. They do it because of the anxiety of what others will
think. Or because they care about the feelings of others, which may be to the
detriment of their own interests and needs. Believe me, there are many
situations in which you do not need to feel remorse and apologize at all.
You don't have to apologize to someone who doesn't love you
On the contrary, rejoice that you are capable of love. There
are an awful lot of people in the world who are afraid to love. Therefore, they
completely give up this chance. It doesn't matter who you love and whether I
reciprocate your feelings. The important thing is that you know how to love.
You don't have to apologize for your refusals. Never!
Respecting personal boundaries is an expression of
self-respect. If there is determination or principles behind your refusal,
respect them. The ability to say "no" with dignity is a hallmark of a
true leader.
Never apologize for being true to your dreams
A life lived with regret is empty. Never apologize for
having dreams that you pursue and that make you feel alive.
You don't have to apologize for taking time for yourself
You will never become successful and happy if you don't also
think about yourself. Don't ignore your needs and wants and make time for what
makes you happy or makes you feel good.
You shouldn't apologize for your own priorities
Never let anyone make you feel guilty about how you rank
your personal priorities. If something is important to you, then it really is
important. People who value you will always respect your choice.
You don't have to apologize for ending a painful relationship
Do not regret or show regret for parting with people who
have caused you discomfort or pain. If you realize that the relationship with
someone has become complicated, painful and this is preventing you, you are taking
a huge step forward.
Never apologize for your imperfections
Imperfections and flaws are also part of the uniqueness of
each human personality. Accept them with love.
You owe no apology for your firm stance
Never apologize while standing up for your values, morals,
ethics, religious or spiritual beliefs. Leaders do not seek forgiveness for
their thoughts and actions because they think they are right.
You should never apologize for placing high hopes on someone
Never ask for forgiveness for expecting from others what you
expect from yourself. Having high hopes for someone means you only think the
best of that person.
You don't have to apologize for spending money on yourself
And don't feel guilty about splurging on a more expensive
purchase. When you do, you boost your self-esteem. Happy and successful people
know very well how important their own desires are to a fulfilling life.
You should never apologize for another person
Everyone is responsible for their own actions and behavior.
You don't have to apologize for what someone else has done, even if it directly
involves or affects you.
Never apologize for the truth you have spoken
Powerful people speak the truth. Don't apologize for being a
strong person. Even if this truth is painful, it is better to remain an honest
person. Don't lie to yourself and don't worry about what others will think.
Excessive apologies or regrets for no real reason slowly but surely lowers your
self-esteem. Save them for when you're really wrong or have made a mistake.
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